Intimacy & Communication Cards for Couples

Juliette holding her phone with a card open in the Communication and Intimacy Cards app

HOW IT WORKS

15 minutes. One card. One prompt, the whole time.

We talk all the time. Feeling understood is what brings you closer.

Set a 15-minute timerOne person picks a card and reads the prompt aloud.

One answer at a timeThe listener responds only with: Thank you. Clarify that. Summarise that.

Thank you means switchOnce you reach "Thank you," swap roles. Same prompt, back and forth.

Repeat until the timer endsThe repetition is the point. Each pass goes a little deeper.

Read the full breakdown of the Dyad →

The right question, at the right moment, opens something months of talking had not.

I used these questions with clients for years, then put them into a form you can use at your own kitchen table, on an ordinary Tuesday, without me.

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INSIDE THE APP

This is what it feels like. Press play.

Pick a card and turn it over. Choose with a partner, or on your own. Then my voice takes you through it: who speaks first, the timer, the three answers, the bell.

1prompt

15minutes

3answers

Get the Cards Try six cards free first

THE DECKS

Choose your way in.

All decks live in the same app. One-time payment, permanent access on any device.

Couples and Friends & Family

£55

Couples deck included
Friends & Family deck included
Ten sections, so there is one for wherever you are
£70 of decks, yours for £55
Both live in the same app

Get Access

FOR THE TWO OF YOU

Couples

£35

Over 150 cards, sorted by the moment you are in
When It's Good · warm, easy, playful
Touch and Desire · the body, and being wanted
After the Row · repair
What We Don't Say · the unsaid
Where It Came From · held out of the shuffle
One question per card, so you stay with it

Get Couples

FOR EVERYONE ELSE

Friends & Family

£35

Over 150 cards, sorted by who is in the room
The Table · sayable with others in earshot
The People You Chose · friendship, belonging
Where You Come From · the family you were given
On Your Own · solo reflection
The Harder Ones · held out of the shuffle
One question per card, so you stay with it

Get Friends & Family

OR START SMALLER

31 Days Closer

£17

31 cards, already in the right order
One a day, you never have to choose
Fifteen minutes and the three answers built in
Straight onto the cards, no password

Start 31 Days Closer

Also in the app

After something has happened Trust & Repair 50 cards for the conversations that need a careful place to land. £22.50 · See the deck → Seasonal Holiday Survival Kit 37 cards for the days the whole family is under one roof. £17 · See the kit →

QUESTIONS

What you might be wondering.

Do we need to download an app?

The cards are browser-based. They work on any phone, tablet, or laptop. No download required.

Is this a subscription?

One-time payment. Permanent access. No recurring charges.

Can I use these alone?

Yes. Choose On your own and you get five minutes with one prompt. Write one answer, or speak it out loud, then take a breath and give the next.

What is the difference between the decks?

They all work the same way: one card, fifteen minutes, three answers. Couples is for the two of you. Friends & Family is for everyone else. 31 Days Closer gives you one card a day, already in order. Trust & Repair and the Holiday Survival Kit live in the same app.

Can I buy more decks later?

Yes. Own one deck and the other is £35, so you never pay twice for the same cards.

Can I get them printed?

Yes, the same prompts come as printed decks, posted to your door. Everything on this page is the app.

Pick a card. Ask the question. Notice what happens.

The good conversations. The ones you remember.