What couples bring me
Does any of this sound like you two?
You love each other, and you live like roommates.
One of you reaches. The other braces.
Talking about it turns into the same old fight. So nobody brings it up any more.
One of you wants more, and feels bad for wanting it.
Menopause, or changes in erections, have changed everything.
You booked the weekend away. It didn't last past Monday.
None of this means you've failed. These are patterns.
They shift when the body joins the conversation.
You still love each other.
You've just stopped reaching.
Searching for couples therapy or counselling near Tunbridge Wells?
Here's how this is different.
Most couples therapy and counselling is talking. This work happens in the body: touch, timing, and simple structures you can take home and use the same week.
I'm an EMDR therapist and a hypnotherapist as well as an intimacy and touch expert. So if something old comes up, we work with it there and then.
If sex has gone completely quiet, read how couples in a sexless marriage reconnect physically.
What happens
Your day together, as you'll live it
You say what's true, without the fight
We start with one question, on a timer. One of you speaks, the other listens. Every time it slides into blame, I bring you back.
Each of you gets mapped
One body at a time, part by part, touched in different ways. You answer as we go.
Your partner watches, and learns your map.
03 · The heart of it
You learn to touch each other again
I show each of you how to touch the other in the way their body actually answers to. Where to linger, how firm, when to hold still.
Couples stay clothed, especially the first time. If any genital touch comes into the day, it happens over clothes.
Touch stops being a question. It starts landing.
You go home with a practice
Touch dates on a timer, the Intimacy and Communication Cards app, and a clear plan for the weeks after. Often we take sex off the table for a while, so every touch can land without pressure.
"For the first time, I felt I could trust him completely to read my body and respond without second-guessing."
Lucy and BenWhere and when
Near Tunbridge Wells, in London, or online
Near Tunbridge Wells
In my own space. I share the exact address once you've booked.
London
I come to you for your full day. We work out the details on your free 30-minute call.
Online
Wherever you live. I've worked with couples from New York, Dubai and France.
Weekdays, plus one weekend a month. One or two evenings a week I work with couples up to 8pm UK time. Two spaces a month.
The question everyone asks
Do we have to undress?
No. Couples stay clothed, especially the first time. Nothing is forced, and a no is always honoured.
One day, or three months
The Couples VIP Day
Six hours for the two of you, a Touch Map for each of you, lunch when you come in person, a 30-minute integration call and Telegram support for 48 hours after.
Your investment
£5,000
Want longer? The Beginning is three months together, £8,997.
- A full day, the two of you
- A Touch Map for each of you
- Lunch in person
- 30-minute integration call
- 48 hours of Telegram support
- The Cards app
How to start
Four steps
A free 30-minute call. One of you or both. We talk about where you are.
You choose. One day, or three months with The Beginning.
Before we meet. Each of you answers a short questionnaire on your own, so nobody has to say it in front of the other.
Your day. Near Tunbridge Wells, in London, or online.
Why Juliette?
Fifteen years with couples.
For fifteen years I've worked with couples at exactly this point: couples who love each other, who have tried, and who find that trying harder hasn't closed the gap.
I know how to hold both people in the same room without either one feeling managed.
I won't take on couples where I notice abuse, and I name it straight away. I won't take on couples where one person believes the other is the only one to blame.
EMDR therapist · Hypnotherapist
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Real messages from couples
In their own words
Questions
Do we have to undress?
No. Couples stay clothed, especially the first time. Any genital touch happens over clothes.
Where exactly are you?
Near Tunbridge Wells. I share the exact address once you've booked.
Do you come to London?
Yes. I come to you in London for your full day. We work out the details on your free 30-minute call.
Can we book an evening or a weekend?
Yes. I open one weekend a month, and one or two evenings a week I work with couples up to 8pm UK time.
Is this couples therapy or counselling?
It's intimacy and touch coaching. I'm also an EMDR therapist and a hypnotherapist, so if something old comes up, we can work with it in the moment.
Do you work with same-sex couples?
Yes. I work with straight, same-sex and LGBTQ+ couples.
Can we do this online?
Yes. I've worked online with couples from New York, Dubai and France.
What's your refund policy?
This is personal, bespoke work. All sales are final. Book when your yes is clear.