What she says.
What he hears.
What actually lands?
Everyday phrases women say, and what they’re truly asking for underneath
The now-infamous naked salad story (yes, it’s as good as it sounds)
Clear examples of how communication gets lost between partners
A playful yet profound Tea Exercise to help you identify your personal receiving patterns
Simple, body-led language shifts that can change the way you ask, respond, and feel
Conversation prompts to support intimacy, emotional safety, and reconnection
A new rhythm of relating, where words matter less, and presence leads
This guide opens the doorway to that deeper knowing.
You’ll begin to recognise:
Your own pattern
The states you shift into without noticing
The kind of touch your body actually receives: emotionally, energetically, erotically, spiritually
This is your soft entry into the full Touch Ecosystem:
Where survival softens.
And Touch That Lands™ begins.
A threshold moment into something more honest, more attuned, more embodied.
A deeply practical and emotionally resonant guide
A new lens on your own patterns of giving, shrinking, or staying silent
The first step toward reclaiming how you want to be met, in relationships, and in your own body
An introduction to my signature tools and teachings, including Touch Base™ and the Touch Reboot Kit
This isn’t about asking harder.
It’s about being heard, before you even speak
You’ve ever said “I’m fine” when you were anything but
You find yourself overgiving, managing, or translating in relationships
You’re ready to shift how connection feels, not just how it looks
You want to be seen without performing for it
You want a new kind of dialogue: one that meets you in the space between words, between signals, between touches
I’ve spent over 27 years attuning to the body- and the psyche. First through children on the spectrum, as a SENCO: helping them feel, regulate, and trust what they sensed but couldn’t yet say.
That’s where this began: with sensation, safety, and the truth that lives beneath language.
For the past 15 years, I’ve met visionary women, men, and couples at the edge of their next becoming: guiding them into intimacy, ease, and embodied presence that feels true.
Much of my work touches the quiet aftermath of sexual trauma: where the body holds what words cannot.
I hold the field where restoration happens.
I’m the creator of The Touch Languages™ - a living framework for how we’re shaped by life, and how we begin to feel again.
I also created Touch Base®, a transformational methodology rooted in somatic precision, energetic attunement, and sacred safety, along with Rapid Release Rewire & Restore®, and The Beginning, my intimate experience for couples.
Whether you meet me in private mentorship, a luxury retreat, or a whispered Telegram voice note, this work is not about performance. It’s about return.
To trust. To self. To the touch that actually lands™ emotionally, energetically, sensually, and spiritually.
As the host of The Scrumptious Woman® Podcast (Top 2.5% worldwide), I support those ready to live with unapologetic authenticity: where safety isn’t just felt, it’s lived… and where every touch from life becomes a return to self.