What she says.
What he hears.
What actually lands?
Everyday phrases women say, and what they’re truly asking for underneath
The now-infamous naked salad story (yes, it’s as good as it sounds)
Clear examples of how communication gets lost between partners
A playful yet profound Tea Exercise to help you identify your personal receiving patterns
Simple, body-led language shifts that can change the way you ask, respond, and feel
Conversation prompts to support intimacy, emotional safety, and reconnection
A new rhythm of relating, where words matter less, and presence leads
This guide opens the doorway to that deeper knowing.
You’ll begin to recognise:
Your own pattern
The states you shift into without noticing
The kind of touch your body actually receives: emotionally, energetically, erotically, spiritually
This is your soft entry into the full Touch Ecosystem:
Where survival softens.
And Touch That Lands™ begins.
A threshold moment into something more honest, more attuned, more embodied.
A deeply practical and emotionally resonant guide
A new lens on your own patterns of giving, shrinking, or staying silent
The first step toward reclaiming how you want to be met, in relationships, and in your own body
An introduction to my signature tools and teachings, including Touch Base™ and the Touch Reboot Kit
This isn’t about asking harder.
It’s about being heard, before you even speak
You’ve ever said “I’m fine” when you were anything but
You find yourself overgiving, managing, or translating in relationships
You’re ready to shift how connection feels, not just how it looks
You want to be seen without performing for it
You want a new kind of dialogue: one that meets you in the space between words, between signals, between touches
I’m the creator of Touch Base®- a transformational methodology rooted in somatic precision, energetic attunement, and trauma-informed intimacy , The Touch Languages™ -how we repair, explore, and land touch in the real world. - as well as The Rapid Release Rewire & Restore® Method, and the intimate couples experience known as The Beginning.
With 27 years of experience transforming connection, trauma, and embodiment for clients worldwide, I’ve supported women, men, and couples out of routine and into presence, clarity, and touch that actually lands™.
Whether you join my private mentorship, a retreat, or listen to The Scrumptious Woman® Podcast (top 2.5% globally), my work is designed to restore your confidence in life, your body, and deeply felt pleasure across every domain.