with Juliette Karaman
90 minutes. The two of you and me. The pattern named, and the first move made.
One session. Just the two of you. Pay first, then book.
It is the reach that has gone wrong. One of you goes to touch the other and something sets, a fraction, before a hand even lands. The other feels the pull-back and reads it as not being wanted. Neither of you says it. You move on. You are good at moving on.
That is not a lack of love. That is the nature of patterns. They are hardest to see from inside them.
Ninety minutes. I name the loop running between you, and we move it while you are both still in the room.
And the two of you finally see the same thing.
Ninety minutes on Zoom. The two of you, and me. This one needs you both in the room.
You tell me where it goes quiet. I listen to how your bodies tell it: what each of you moves past quickly, what slows down, where the breath climbs before the words do. I work somatically, which means I am reading what your two nervous systems are doing with each other, not only what you say.
By the end, you will both see the pattern. I name it plainly, for your relationship specifically. Then we disrupt it, so you leave having felt it move.
A somatic grounding tool you both practise together. You leave with it already in your bodies, for the moments the pattern fires again.
The whole ninety minutes, yours to keep.
The pattern named. Three moves that are yours as a couple. Clear direction on where to go next, whether that is on your own or deeper with me.
You come in together, we do the work, you leave with something real. If you want to go deeper, that conversation happens at the end. No pressure, no hidden next step.
One session. One purchase. That is the complete offer. You come in together, we do the work, you leave with something real. If afterwards you want to go deeper, that conversation happens at the end of the ninety minutes, or through a Touch Audit.
I have spent 27 years learning to read what the body holds before the mind knows to say it. Fifteen of those years working specifically with couples and relationship patterns: people who love each other and cannot understand why that love keeps turning into distance, silence, or war.
Before I was the practitioner in that room, I was the woman on the other side of it. I know what it feels like to pull away and have no language for why. To perform closeness because the real thing felt too far to access. To love someone and still feel unreachable.
It took me years to understand what I was braced against, what I needed and had never been given, and what structure would have changed everything. So I followed my own wound into every room it needed to understand.
I did not collect these. I needed every single one.
When my own marriage ended, my ex-husband and I sat down together, before any lawyers, and decided everything. The houses, the money, the life we had built, how our children would move between us. By the time we reached the lawyers, there was nothing left to fight over. Our children never had to choose sides.
Fifteen years later, we spend Christmas together. Birthdays together. Every time we are at a table together, someone pulls me aside and asks: how did you do that?
Structure. Not the absence of pain. A container strong enough to hold it without destroying everything else.
I know what each of you cannot yet say to the other. I know what the distance is actually made of. And I can translate both in ninety minutes.
I have been where you are, in all of it. I came out with my family intact, my children whole, and the man I was married to still one of my closest people. That is not luck. That is what happens when the work is specific, honest, and done in the body rather than just the mind.
A couple who had not touched each other in twenty-three years came to do the work.
Three months later, they left for their second honeymoon.
Not because they talked it through for long enough. Because we worked where the distance actually lived.
"We don't require anything fancy to connect. Just intention, and the space Juliette created."Tamara and Guido
One-time payment. Pay first, then book your date.
After payment you receive a calendar booking link and a short questionnaire for each of you. Your answers shape the ninety minutes. Take your time with them.
Book Your Session · £997Just for one of you? The solo Pattern Session is £597.