THE TOUCH RESET
A 12-week live group for anyone whose body has stopped meeting them where touch is concerned.
A 12-week live group for anyone whose body has stopped meeting them where touch is concerned.
This is how scrumptious touch comes back.
Not by understanding it better. Not by trying harder.
By practising something else, in small doses, daily, until the new response is as automatic as the old one was.
No flaw in you. No flaw in the relationship. Patterns can be changed.
Twelve weeks, in the body, in the order it actually changes.
You still love them. Your body has just stopped meeting you there.
You go through it. You leave feeling further from yourself, not closer.
You want to open. You know the old pattern will run if you don't do something different first.
Any of those, this is for you.You don't need a partner to start.
If you've already tried therapy, tantra, or a retreat, and nothing quite reached this, that's not you doing it wrong. All of that works on the mind or the conversation.
None of it reaches the body itself, which is the only place this pattern actually lives.
Read them. One will describe you a little too well.
You reach first, you hold everyone, and quietly wonder why no one ever thinks to hold you.
With touch: you give easily and receive awkwardly, bracing the second a hand lands without you earning it.
You'll recognise it when
"I want to be held without having to earn it."
There is fire in you. You learned to turn it down to stay wanted, and now you are quietly starving to be met at full heat.
With touch: you only let it in once you have dimmed for it, so it reaches the softened version of you, never the full heat.
You'll recognise it when
"I want to be wanted without shrinking."
You stay composed and in control, because softness once cost you too much. You would rather hold than be held.
With touch: you tense a beat before contact, and would rather give on your terms than be caught receiving.
You'll recognise it when
"I want to soften without collapsing."
You stay readable. You translate and filter yourself so well that no one ever meets the raw, unedited you.
With touch: yours is graceful and curated, and you disconnect a beat before it can sink in.
You'll recognise it when
"I want to be met in the full mess of me."
You bring the aliveness, you keep the charge even when no one meets you there, and being the source is quietly exhausting you.
With touch: you give generously and feel every flicker of disconnection, so you offer more instead of letting yourself be received.
You'll recognise it when
"I want to be received without leading it all."
Whichever one just described you, that is the pattern The Touch Reset is built to change.
Not a decision. A reflex.
Before you have a chance to want it or not want it, something in you has already moved. Closed a little. Braced. Went through the motions instead of into the moment. You can be desperate for closeness and still do this. It is not a choice you are making.
That reflex is not who you are. It is a pattern your body learned, and it travels with you everywhere touch could happen.
The Touch Reset gives you the one thing you take into every one of them. Your own Touch Language, known. Your Pleasure Language, known. A nervous system that stays open instead of bracing. No flaw in you. No flaw in the relationship. Patterns can be changed.
Twenty-seven years of this work, the last fifteen with couples and trauma, compressed into twelve weeks. A shortcut, yes.One that leads somewhere you have never been before.
You already know how to talk about this. What you do not know is how to stop your shoulders climbing toward your ears the second someone reaches for you.
This pattern lives in the body and the mind together. We work with both, not one instead of the other.
The Touch Reset goes in the order the body and mind actually change.
You cannot want touch if your body still thinks it is under threat. This comes first, before anything else, every time.
What you were told touch and sex meant, examined and updated, not assumed.
Your own hand first. Your own Touch Map™. You cannot receive what you have not learned to feel.
Your Pleasure Language, mapped and spoken out loud. Last, because everything before it determines whether it lands.
Every week, a real mechanic, demonstrated, then practised. Not described in a book, not talked about in theory. Felt, in your own body, in the room.
You'll learn how to:
You'll learn how to:
You'll learn how to:
Mapping what you're wired for. Your Pleasure Language, your Erotic Language, your Blueprint. The way into pleasure. Your wiring into turn on.
Yes, sex gets better. That's real, and it was never the starting point. Most people who come to me have lost that too. Non-sexual touch comes first, always, the actual physical intimacy sex was supposed to be built on top of. Once that's real, what's built on top of it gets to be real as well.
Novelty doesn't come from spontaneity. It comes from safety, and then it comes back louder than before.
Three phases, in the order the body actually changes.
A few short videos on that week's one pattern or practice, never more than about an hour total.
Where we practise it together.
Drop a question anytime, day or night, nothing has to wait for the next call. I'm in there myself three times a week with a new thread, so nothing gets carried alone.
For building touch into a weekly ritual, not a task.
475+ real prompts for communication and intimacy.
Not a check-in. A few minutes, every week, together.
Fun, creative, ready whenever you need one.
A menu of touch to choose from, no guessing.
The soundtrack, already chosen for you.
Yours from Phase Two, to keep and return to whenever you need it.
Not a memory of twelve weeks. A practice you keep, in your own body, long after the cohort ends.
Twelve weeks. A body you actually live in for the rest of your life. You have tried the other things. This is the thing that works.
I came believing I was in control. I left with a level of clarity I didn't realise I was missing.
Rodrick · Investor & Strategist, UK
It is like being loved from the inside out. She listens to my body's needs better than I can, guiding me to release what I didn't even realise I was holding.
Marc Q · Computer Analyst, Turkey
I've worked with top mentors, but nothing rewired me like this. This wasn't about learning, it was about becoming.
James B · Entrepreneur, USA
I thought I knew what presence meant. This showed me the difference between thinking about it and living it. The change was immediate and lasting.
Ahmed A · Entrepreneur, UAE
The experience began before the night itself, with the personalised quiz and videos. For once, I didn't micromanage. I trusted. When I stepped into the space he created, I felt deeply held. He was present, confident, attuned, in a way I didn't know I needed.
Anna Shapiro
I wanted to create something meaningful, not just for her, but for us. Your guidance gave me confidence. I stopped second-guessing. For the first time in years, I knew what she needed. Watching her soften, open, and receive was everything.
Ben Shapiro
I have had the most magical 24 hours. He really really held me so kindly and strongly last night when I had a crazy scary moment. Thank you so much.
Deidre A.
Yes you're an energetic match to millions, and anyone who is touched by you is blessed beyond measure. You go, you Scrumptious-Mighty-Woman-You!
Sue-Ann MacCara
A powerful healer with such incredible stories and life experiences. Gentle and loving and yet so powerful in how she offers feedback and guidance. I loved learning from her and receiving her gifts.
Karen McMullen
I was that woman. Hot and alive at the beginning. Then the kids came, something quieted, and we became roommates who loved each other.
What broke me open was not the distance. It was not knowing what was wrong.
The body carries things the mind has never named. Things that happened so early there are no words for them. Things that were never ours to carry in the first place, and yet we did. The way our mothers did. The way their mothers did.
In a room recently, someone said: my mother, me, same pattern. It stopped with them. Because they did the work.
That is why I am so passionate about this. The work does not just free you. It stops something from moving forward into the next generation.
I began as a SENCO, teaching children on the autism spectrum to feel safe in their own skin, before they had words for any of it. That taught me more about the nervous system than anything that came after.
Twenty-seven years. Thousands of women and men. The one whose body went quiet after the kids came. The one who performs because the real thing feels too far away. The one who loves completely and cannot explain the distance. I know what it costs to stay quiet. I know what it takes to come back.
As seen on ITV, with Ferne McCann
Founding cohort, only 15 spots. Book a call to talk it through and see if it's the right fit.
A few short videos, never more than about an hour, plus the weekly live call. Touch Base® itself takes two minutes a day.
Every call is recorded. You catch up in your own time, around the life you're actually running.
Yes. The work begins with your own body first, whatever your situation. Whether the touch has gone quiet with a partner, it's never quite landed on your own, or you're ready to start again without the old pattern running, you start here.
No. Most of the work is your own first, your own hand, your own Touch Map™, your own nervous system. If you have a partner, they're welcome in parts of it. If you don't, that's not a barrier to starting.
Yes. I've worked with real trauma for decades, women, couples, sexual trauma, deep in it, not skimming past it. I'm EMDR trained. You don't need to tell me the story or name where the brace came from for this to work, the work is with the pattern itself. If what you're carrying needs more than this group can hold, I'll tell you exactly that on the call, and point you toward what will.
It's a call with me, not my team. If it's not right for you, I'll tell you.
The course materials are yours for life. Live call access ends when the cohort does, but everything you can go back to is yours to keep.
I can't promise a specific result, that depends on what you put in. What I can promise is real support the whole way through. If you do the full twelve weeks, show up to at least 80% of the calls, and complete at least 80% of the self-paced videos and assessments, and you still don't feel safe and in touch with your body and your pleasure, I'll work with you in a group capacity for an additional 30 days, at no extra cost.
Twelve weeks, daily structure, the pattern your body has been running, changed. Not managed, not performing, actually alive in your own skin. Only 15 spots in the founding cohort.
Founding cohort. Only 15 spots.
