You know what happens the second his hand finds your back.
Your body leaves the room before the touch even lands.
You've named it. Traced it back. Read every book that explains exactly why.
It still happens.
When touch begins, your body has already left the room.
I've worked with thousands of women and couples.
Knowing was never going to move it.
The pattern does not live where the knowing is. It lives in the body, and the body has been running it on automatic for years.
You can love him and still brace for his reaching. You can want closeness and still feel safer at arm's length.
This is not a thinking pattern. It is a body pattern. Talking about it will not move it. Working with it, directly, somatically, will.
I stopped performing closeness and started feeling it again.
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