The Key to Effortless Intimacy
A Bespoke Experience for Couples—where he learns to create safety, she learns to trust and receive, and together, you unlock a deeper connection, passion, and trust.
What Is 'The Beginning'?
A meticulously curated, deeply personalised online experience—designed to create lasting transformation in your intimacy.
This is an exquisitely crafted, bespoke journey, shaped by decades of mastery.
Through a tailored intake process—including a detailed questionnaire and the Uncover Your Pleasure Language Quiz—I gain deep insight into your unique dynamics, ensuring an experience that feels like it was made just for you.
From there, I create a fully personalised audio experience, guiding you into deeper connection, trust, and effortless intimacy.
Every element—from guided practices to integration tools—is intentionally curated to help you break old patterns, build trust, and unlock a connection that feels both natural and electric.
Who Is This For?
You already have a strong, successful relationship—but you know there’s another level of intimacy waiting to be unlocked.
You want deeper intimacy
Without pressure, second-guessing, or hesitation
You desire a connection
Where trust and passion flow effortlessly
You're ready to discover
Each other’s pleasure language—& unlock new depths
This isn’t about techniques or routines.
This is about precision, refinement, and mastery—
tuning into the unspoken language of intimacy
and creating a space where she feels safe to fully let go.
For him, it’s about stepping into confidence—grounding, leading, and creating the safety she longs for.
For her, it’s about releasing control—surrendering to pleasure and allowing herself to be fully held.
For both,
it’s about trust, desire, and deep connection—without hesitation.
What’s Possible?
Even if your connection is already strong, there are layers of intimacy waiting to be unlocked.
This isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about expanding what’s already beautiful.
She melts in your presence—not because she has to, but because she feels safe enough to let go.
He instinctively knows what she needs—not because she told him, but because he’s learned to read her body’s unspoken language.
Intimacy feels effortless—where every touch, every glance, and every moment of connection creates sparks of deep alignment.
He moves with confidence and ease, guiding her into deeper trust, connection, and pleasure.
Together, they feel free—free to trust, to receive, to connect fully—without pressure, without second-guessing.
By the end of this journey, they'll have:
A deep sense of trust: She can surrender, knowing he understands her needs without asking.
Effortless intimacy: A connection that feels natural, fulfilling, and deeply aligned.
Freedom from miscommunication: No more second-guessing or hesitation in and out of the bedroom.
Reignited passion: A roadmap to keep the spark alive, every single day.
What’s Included?
Video Lessons for Him
Master the subtle cues of her body—so he instinctively knows what she needs, deepening trust and connection.
Create an atmosphere where she feels fully seen, cherished, and safe to surrender.
Understand what hasn’t worked before—and unlock the key to effortless intimacy.
Video Lessons for Her
Release hesitation and trust his confidence to lead you into deeper connection.
Surrender fully into the experience—letting go of the need to manage, plan, or direct.
Gain clarity on your own pleasure blueprint—so he can attune to you with precision.
Joint Immersive Videos & Audio Practices
Uncover the hidden gaps in your pleasure languages—and learn to become fluent in each other’s.
Master both verbal and non-verbal communication—learning to use the Dyad technique and body-led touch to create deeper intimacy, trust, and attunement.
Follow guided touch and relaxation practices—with an immersive audio through an immersive audio where I teach him exactly how to touch her, while guiding her on how to breathe, soften, and fully receive.
Integrate intimacy into daily life— with somatic exercises and embodied anchors that bring effortless connection beyond the bedroom.
Uncover Personalised Intimacy Insights:
Bespoke intake forms & quizzes —revealing the unseen patterns shaping your connection and deepening your awareness of each other’s needs.
Practical Tools for Connection:
Step-by-step safety rituals, guided touch techniques, and unspoken cues—helping him lead with confidence and her relax into deeper trust and surrender.
Integration & Reflection:
Guided check-ins to track breakthroughs and anchor lasting change—so your new way of connecting becomes effortless and second nature.
Exclusive Tune-In Session:
Celebrate your progress, refine your experience, and deepen your connection with personalised support to keep your intimacy evolving.
Are You Ready to Begin?
Your bespoke journey into effortless intimacy starts here.
Let my voice lead you—step by step, touch by touch—into deeper trust, passion, and connection, all within the intimacy of your own home.
TESTIMONIALS
"The experience started even before the day, with the personalised quiz and videos that built anticipation. I resisted the urge to ask Ben what he was planning and instead trusted the process.
When the moment arrived, I walked into a beautifully set space—calm, inviting, and full of intention. Any pressure melted away as I realised: he truly wanted me to receive.
Your guidance led us step by step—how to touch, linger, and connect in a way that felt effortless. For the first time in years, I felt fully seen. Ben was present, confident, and attuned to me in a way I didn’t realise I’d been craving.
This wasn’t just a Valentine’s gift; it was a reconnection—one we’ll carry with us long beyond 2025."
-ANNA S.
"The journey started with the personalised quiz and videos, giving me insights I hadn’t considered before. I wanted to create something special—not just for her, but for us.
When she walked into the room, I saw the surprise in her eyes, then the moment she truly let go. Your guidance gave me confidence—how to touch, when to pause, and how to simply be present with her. For the first time in years, I wasn’t second-guessing; I just knew what she needed.
Watching her soften, open, and receive without hesitation was everything. This wasn’t just about intimacy—it was about trust, connection, and truly seeing each other again.
This experience has changed the way we show up for each other—not just for one night, but for the life we’re building together."
- BEN S.
Recognised for my work in intimacy, trauma healing, and conscious relationships, I have been featured in top publications and podcasts worldwide.
My insights on creating emotional safety, restoring intimacy, and overcoming relational blocks
have supported countless individuals and couples in redefining their relationships and reclaiming deep connection.
Reclaiming Pleasure through Safety
About Juliette Karaman- van Schaardenburg
For over 15 years, I have guided visionaries, leaders, and couples -both men and women- to break free from cycles of disconnection and reclaim intimacy, desire, and ease.
My work focuses on healing the seen and unseen impact of sexual trauma—helping men and women restore trust, presence, and deep emotional safety in their relationships.
Through my Touch Base methodology and signature Rapid Release Rewire & Restore Method®, I empower clients to release emotional weight, dissolve relational blocks, and access profound trust, ease, and connection.
As the host of The Scrumptious Woman® Podcast (Top 2.5% worldwide), my work extends across private mentorship, luxury retreats, and group experiences—supporting both men and women in deepening their relationships, embodying their desires, and living with unapologetic authenticity.
