How to Feel Like a Woman: The Art of Being Turned On After 40
This is about being turned on by your own life again.
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This is about being turned on by your own life again.
The woman who could feel?
Who knew what she wanted?
Who enjoyed being in her body?
In touch with yourself.
In touch with your life.
In touch with how life touches you.
For four weeks, we're going to give your body something different to experience.
Each week, we'll have one masterclass where I'll teach you what we're working with, we'll talk about what's actually coming up, and we'll take the practice deeper.
Because things do come up.
This is why I don't want to give you a practice and send you off to figure it out by yourself.
Which is exactly why I have built in Practice Lab time.
You do not need more information. You need to actually feel it, and notice how it changes you.
I do this practice every day myself. Especially at the beginning, having somewhere to turn up and actually do it is what makes it stick.
Fifteen minutes. Cameras on or off, you choose.
I'll be there doing the practice with you, holding the time, telling you when to begin and when to finish. Sometimes we'll practise something specific we've been working with, like the Yes Stroke. Sometimes we'll simply practise.
Because I'm not particularly interested in you becoming very knowledgeable about being turned on.
Throughout the month, you'll have access to me inside our private WhatsApp sisterhood too.
That's where the Scrumptious Confessions, questions, discoveries, "WHAT just happened?" moments, and the things you might not be quite ready to say anywhere else, get to live.
For these four weeks, I am.
I've spent decades exploring the places most women were taught not to talk about.
I've worked as a professional dominatrix. As a Dakini. I've worked in conscious sexuality and taught and worked with hundreds of women around touch, pleasure, intimacy and the body.
Hundreds of those women were carrying sexual trauma. Women who had learned to leave their own bodies long before anyone asked them to stay.
I was one of them. For a long time I did not know what was going on in my own body. I could not have told you what I wanted, or where I felt anything, or whether what I felt was pleasure or bracing.
I've also been the woman wired up to monitors as part of research into female sexual response.
I've been the woman who thought parts of her own body had gone quiet.
So throughout these four weeks, I'm going to tell you some of the stories I don't usually tell.
The things I've seen.
The things I've learned.
The things that surprised the hell out of me.
Not because I want you to have my experience.
Most women have been going to the same square centimetre for twenty years, found the same thing there every time, and quietly concluded there is nothing to find.
There are twelve.
Over the four weeks I take you round the whole clock, on your own body first, always.
The clock. Twelve o'clock points up toward your belly. One o'clock sits slightly to the left, and it is the one most women find first and then never leave.
Up strokes and down strokes, and what changes between them.
The scissors. Two fingers, a little more pressure on the way down.
Hovering, which never lands at all, and which for some women is the most powerful touch there is.
The Yes Stroke. Saying yes out loud every time you genuinely feel it, and leaving alone the ones you cannot.
No partner needed for any of it. Not in week one, not in week four.
Amrita, which is what tantra calls female ejaculation, sometimes arrives through this work. Sometimes it does not, and it is never the measure of anything.
Four live masterclasses, every Wednesday at 8:30pm UK time
A recording of every masterclass, sent to you the day afterwards
At least three live 15-minute Practice Labs every week, covering all time zones, set around the women who join
Daily invitations between sessions
Scrumptious Confessions
Private WhatsApp sisterhood, with access to me throughout the four weeks
I don't think you need another person telling you what you should want or how you should feel.
I want you to become intimate enough with your own body to discover what is actually true for you.
I'm Juliette Karaman. I've spent decades exploring and working with touch, intimacy, pleasure and what it means to actually inhabit your body.
I've worked as a professional dominatrix, a Dakini, in conscious sexuality, and with hundreds of women and couples around intimacy, touch and connection.
But I don't teach this from theory. I practise it. At this stage of my life, I feel more turned on, more connected to my body and more at ease being a woman than ever.
That's what I want to open up for you.
A woman who is turned on by her own life changes the room she walks into. That part I do not have to teach you. It happens on its own, and other people tend to notice it before you do.
8:30pm UK is chosen on purpose. It lands in the evening across Europe, early morning in eastern Australia, and the middle of the day in the States.
The Practice Labs cover all time zones. Those times get set around the women who actually join, so there is a lab you can reach from wherever you are.
Every masterclass is recorded, and the recording is sent to you the day afterwards. If you cannot make one live, you have not missed it.
This isn't for you if you want to read about it. There is a practice, you do it, and I am on the call doing it alongside you. Reading about pleasure has never once changed what a body can feel.
This isn't for you if you are hoping to hand your partner a solution. All of this starts on your own body, and it works the same whether there is someone in the bed or not.
This isn't for you if you want a guaranteed outcome. I can promise you four weeks of practice and my full attention. I cannot promise you a particular sensation on a particular Wednesday, and anyone who does is selling you something.
This isn't for you if you cannot find fifteen minutes, three times a week. That is the ask. If the next four weeks genuinely have nothing spare in them, this isn't the month.
Starts Wednesday 28 October at 8:30pm UK time.